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 SECRET ABOUT WOMEN: 1. When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says. If possible always hug her to calm her down. 2. The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed. 3. It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess up, you might just forget it. 4. A woman is such a school you will never graduate from. 5. Your wedding certificate with her is not a " Driving licence", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her. 6. She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always. 7. A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always. 8. A woman can be highly secretive. Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and cry to friends. Make your woman your best friend. 9. All women Lo...

 12 THINGS TO SAY NO TO IN YOUR MARRIAGE 1. Say NO to going to bed with unresolved issues. The longer issues pile up the messy things become and the climate in your home worsens  2. Say NO to involving parents or family in solving marital matters. Instead, see a counsellor, a pastor or a neutral person of authority who believes in marriage if you can't manage a breakthrough as a couple. Parents and family are biased and after you two have solved issues, they will remember the wrongs done to their son/daughter and it will affect family relations. Minimise the amount of people involved in your domestic affairs  3. Say NO to coming to big decisions without giving the other an opportunity to be heard and considered. This is how to build unity  3. Say NO to using the words "My" in marriage. "My car", "My child", "My house", "My money"... Instead say "Our car", "Our child", "Our house", "Our money" ...